Real world girls vs in romance visual novels.

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#1 by behappyeveryday
2019-05-09 at 01:56
I think all inexperienced guys should be warned what in real world things are vastly different from romantic visual novels (that should be obvious for some people, but still..). No, you can't start dating you childhood friend.. who is still a virgin.. hot looking.. have attractive personality.. and secretly in love with you.. If you have any attractive childhood friends in real life, then be ready to accept the fact what she : will date other guys.. including some casual sex.. with guys she barely knows.. while treating you no more than just friend.. and if you show any sexual interest in her she will think what you "never was her friend and just was usual nice guy who dreams about getting in her pants". Just check /niceguys sub in reddit to get some perspective.

If you want to find an innocent virgin with decent personality and be with her in monogamous relationships forever and love each other.. you will be disappointed. Humans, both men and women, aren't monogamous. What we instead have is serial monogamy with elements of polygamy (based on evolutionary biology and countless researches). It means girls aren't innocent, they want to have sex too. Also, similarly to men, they have some standards in physical attractiveness of their potential partner. It means if you want to be with attractive girls you should at least put some efforts into your looks - go to gym (to get athletic body), don't forget about hygiene and learn a little about style. Real world relationships aren't really romantic - your future wife probably will have at least 3 EX boyfriends with whom she was no less intimate than with you. And you both probably would be bored with each other after 5+ years of being together.. Also sex could lead to STDs and babies, so beware.

I wish what this post could help at least someone.. and not just make all of you lost any desire in pursuing girls IRL, lol.Last modified on 2019-05-09 at 05:41
#2 by eacil
2019-05-09 at 02:22
Yay, another trashes magnet thread. Are we here to talk about VN or about watching freak shows?
#3 by fuukanou
2019-05-09 at 02:35
#1 i think you need to take advice from your own username dude

being this bitter can't be good for you
#4 by steamboatwillie
2019-05-09 at 03:48
中古でも恋がしたい! Are you another one of those virgin fetishists?
#5 by sakurakoi
2019-05-09 at 04:09
similarly to men, they have some standards in physical attractiveness of their potential partner
Similar, huh? Some standards, ne? link
#6 by behappyeveryday
2019-05-09 at 04:49
@2 It is general discussion, not vn discussion.

@3 There is no bitterness here, just some truth. I'm glad what world as it is because if we really were monogamous then I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with girls like I do now. Romantic visual novels explore idea of perfect monogamous relationships which is interesting, but in reality you would be more happy by having a harem or just casual sex with lots of girls. Of course for most guys this type of life is out of reach because of their poor social skills, social anxiety, lack of self-control to work on their looks, etc.

@4 If you want monogamous relationships then it is obvious what you would prefer if you partner never have had anyone else other than you. Most people wouldn't be very glad if all heroines in their moege or nakige already were fcked by side characters. If you prefer it other way around then you probably have cuck fetish, it is fine of course, to each their own. I personally don't care because I don't pursue monogamous relationships now. One of the reasons is what most girls I met so far are just not worth it to be exclusive with them.

@5 This video is bs, because for men sexual attraction is more objective, for women it is more subjective. This is why we men could know beforehand who we will like or who we will not. Even if a girl say what she likes only tall handsome guys with muscles it doesn't means what among her EXes there wasn't some skinny midget with charisma. This research based on WORDS, not based on with whom people actually sleep with, so it means nothing. Your social skill are most important aspect of your attractiveness as a man, without it you wouldn't get any girls even if you model looking millionaire. With social skills you will get girls even if your looks are below average (at least not TOO ugly) and you have no money at all.Last modified on 2019-05-09 at 04:56
#7 by morita2dgirls
2019-05-09 at 05:07
2d girls > 3d girls.
You want the secret of all modern romantic heterosexual relationships? women are hypergamous. All play mind games, all and I mean all are constantly flirting with multiple guys at the same time, the more you want her the less she will be interested in you. Even if that means to fuck a chad - because they never ever will be attracted to nice and romantic guys. Just like most men want sex all women want a army of beta friendzoners orbiting around her. Making stuff for her without giving any romantic or sexual gratification in return, they will never admit they prefer the almost psychopathic detached type of guys but they do. She will never be 'truly yours'. They are human mammals(i.e have primal biological needs) just like you and they don't realize how they operate mostly on a purely emotional level. Love or romance for women is utilitarian.

That's how I see without any misogyny towards women. I just gave up all 3d relationships for nowLast modified on 2019-05-09 at 05:07
#8 by yorhel
2019-05-09 at 05:41
1. Get rid of silly prejudices
2. Open your mind
3. ???
4. Relationship!

Now let's lock this because I can't stand stupid generalizations anymore.


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