Skorpion Of Da Death (uke) x The Jackhammer (seme)
|#26 by shining17|
2020-03-22 at 21:42
Sorry for hijacking this personal thread, I just want to leave these here.Last modified on 2020-03-22 at 21:44
|#27 by skorpiondeath|
2020-03-22 at 21:57
|No problem. Thank you I'll give a look|
|#28 by eacil|
2020-03-22 at 22:03
|No, I was not on edge. I just tried to be witty... and fail at it pretty hard. I thought you knew me after all we had lived together. No question, then. I failed at my sensei duty. :((|
|#29 by skorpiondeath|
2020-03-22 at 22:20
|I'll forgive you in 1 hour eacil... I'm not the kind of guy to take a grudge... actually as I told yorhel more than once I'm unfitted as a moderator and often I feel weak against so much underground colture and concepts that I miss.|
So I'm more concerned on trying to understand and learn from the guys that I think are more expert than me...you being one of those. Having so much discussion, lolicon, ojousama, traits of every kind, imouto's and such...I feel sometime out of place. And to be honest I am, I try to keep up but sometime I feel just behind. My post was just an help request since as you can see there's a "Lolicon" trait that is just appared in the queue and soon we will need to answer to that! So I hope I will be prepared.
I'll rather talk about my real life experience with Japan 18+ fake lolis. They are everywhere dressed in cosplay looking much younger than their age. If you want I can tell you about my maid cafe experience where I saw people older than me (and I'm middle age) playing games with little maids (I couldn't I didnt have platinum card just bronze).
But I guess that kind of real life old guys trying to pick up 18+ girls is normal in other country too.Last modified on 2020-03-22 at 22:22
|#30 by eacil|
2020-03-22 at 23:58
|What can I tell you, you can understand a culture only if you are confronted by it, a lot, and take interest in every aspect. It's one thing to have something explained to you but it's another when tons of examples are popping in your mind and you can infer the characteristics of the stereotype, and might even have theories about it. I didn't read papers about ojousama, I just saw a lot of such characters, and I happen to like them (because they are perfect for a dom position).|
Of course, a culture is made of many sub-movements and you can be passionate about anime and manga without having encountered any of those concepts if you care about stories that don't care about fanservice, or not that type of fanservice. It's not a bad thing to not know about imouto. If imouto are not appealing to you, no wonder that you don't get it. I am sure you know many things about maid, like it seems to be your thing. Many of those concepts if not all are sexual fetishes and everyone has their own. You can't force yourself to read Comic LO so you have no other choice than relying on someone who like it.
I will read carefully the other thread and try to write something useful as to what you need to know about peds. Lolicon bad or good, it's a subject that come and go regularly, and everyone has an opinion about it (especially those who are sickened by it). So, if you want to be in...
It will take some time, though.Last modified on 2020-03-22 at 23:58
|#31 by skorpiondeath|
2020-03-23 at 02:02
|I'm not truly into maids that was just a one time experience and of course I felt out of place, luckily I had my wife with me that helped me enter the Maid Cafe and enjoy the time there.|
But she is much more into the Japanese colture than me and pratically she introduced me to it: food, anime, manga, everyday colture. I had my share of old translated VN before meeting her like Divi-Dead, GLO-RI-A ~Kindan no Ketsuzoku~, Maid Monogatari (one of my favourite at the time - lol maybe I'm on maids a bit), X Change etc...
But you are right I'm trying to force myself to understand every aspect of fetishes that are not my own... and truly I cannot grasp them because I can't find the appeal.
And sexual discovery is a continuos growth, I'm mostly on
- shota reverse monster girl rape
- female domination (not ojousama-high school) more like Starless female strong characters
- bitchy female protagonist netori (not a Japanese theme)
- gender bend
I'm telling you this because even accepting your own fetishes is hard...sometime you like something but you are ashamed by it or you avoid to honeslty accept it as it is.
In the domination part I was always more intrigued by the woman role and also I felt desire to wake up in a female body like in the gender bending VN.
I don't know if this makes sense at all but I always knew I was different from other boys and girls, I tried to fool myself growing up trying to justify my loniless by telling myself that I was smarter and more hypersensitive than other people, but I always had the desire to please other people and to change myself in a way that I could integrate. But it was impossible to relate deeply with boys and at the same time with girls... my first bestfriend was a lesbian (coming out years later) and my first love a bisexual girl.
So I guess that at my age (37) I can safely assume there's a marked femininity within me and that this little girl is a lesbian if that makes even sense now. So look at a fetish without deeply understand where it comes from it wont help solve the misteries of humankind! :P
The thing is that stopping at lolicon = body while pedophile = age seems an easy shortcut and construct that eliminates every other psicologycal aspects bound to it. Probably there are guys that just enjoy the fact of being transgressive reading lolicon VN without forcefully go deep into the fetish.
I wrote all this shit because I agree with you that take interest in every aspect of a colture you need to confront it personally and be open minded and self aware of every psicologycal aspect that you live.
Now the last question arise...why should I always feel this need to answer topics I'm not confortable with...like if I can't answer I'm not enough. That's surely somthing I should work on.
I'm sorry to have bothered you with all this disconnected rambling (and the "I'm not enough" always comes to the surface) but that's the best I achieved at this time of the day (very late here), so I guess it's time to go to bed!Last modified on 2020-03-23 at 02:07
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